Former Huge Brother Naija star and entrepreneur Anita Akide, popularly generally known as Tacha, has sparked contemporary conversations on-line after sharing her candid ideas on love, relationship, and life overseas.
Talking on The Podcast Community on YouTube, Tacha inspired younger girls to take management of their love lives as an alternative of speeding into commitments.
“You want three different boyfriends in your life… I’m not saying to sleep with all of the boyfriends. However a minimum of… You simply by no means actually know,” she stated.
She pressured that girls ought to by no means really feel pressured to calm down too rapidly.
“Each woman needs to be single until they’re truly married… Don’t let your boyfriend cease you from assembly your husband.”
Tacha defined that society holds women and men to completely different requirements, and so girls have to be smarter in navigating relationships.
“The type of grace that the blokes have is just not the identical type of grace that we’ve. So we’d like to have the ability to transfer in a different way,” she stated.
The TV star additionally shared her ideas on residing overseas in comparison with Nigeria. She admitted that whereas life in Nigeria is hard, residing abroad might be much more difficult.
“As a lot because it’s arduous right here in Nigeria, it’s additionally arduous. It’s even more durable overseas, truthfully,” she stated, including that many Nigerians overseas keep away from returning residence out of pleasure.
“Lots of people overseas don’t wish to come again as a result of… individuals are going to say I went overseas and I couldn’t make it after which I got here again.”
Tacha described the loneliness and monetary pressure many face overseas regardless of the glamorous picture they present on-line.
“Individuals undergo nice stress to present an impression that basically, actually doesn’t exist… Two of my baggage objects obtained stolen in Paris… It’s not this difficult again right here in Nigeria.”
Based on her, the sense of group in Nigeria is priceless.
“You possibly can go to your junction and say, ‘Mama Ki, give me one thing of seven,000. By the top of the month, I’ll pay you.’ I really feel like there’s much more to be blissful and vivid about over right here in Nigeria than there within the UK.”
Tacha inspired Nigerians to make use of their outspoken nature to drive optimistic change and reshape the nation’s picture globally.
“With how loud and the way rugged they’re, we truly ought to use that ruggedness to get what we would like within the nation. We are able to attempt to change it… It took a very long time for us to get right here. So it might take a very long time to attempt to change the notion the world has about Nigeria.”
