Real Stories: I found out my girlfriend was sponsoring her boyfriend with my money

I’ve all the time believed in treating my girl proper.

Dates? I paid. Information? On me. Hair, nails, new cellphone, small weekend journeys to Ibadan? I used to be that man. I’m not wealthy o, however I all the time made certain she lacked nothing. As a result of after I’m in, I’m in.

Her title was Chioma. Lovely, soft-spoken, all the time posting motivational quotes like, “Actual males present with out complaining.” I ought to’ve recognized.

We dated for nearly two years. Met throughout NYSC in Anambra. She was all the time round, all the time supportive. I assumed I had discovered my spouse. My guys used to hail me, “That your babe na spec!” And I’d simply smile, chest out like a idiot.

Then at some point, every thing scattered. And it occurred over a GTB alert.

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I had despatched her ₦100k to purchase a brand new cellphone. She claimed her previous one was messing up, and she or he wanted it for a “facet hustle.” Later that night, I observed she forgot to sign off of her WhatsApp Net on my laptop computer. I wasn’t even planning to examine, however curiosity is a harmful factor.

I noticed a chat pinned with a man named “My King” I opened it. That was the second my coronary heart left my chest.

Seems Chioma was utilizing my cash to fund one other man, one deadbeat named Miracle. She despatched him ₦70k out of the ₦100k I simply gave her. “Child, handle this until I get extra,” she wrote. “I’ll ask that man for an additional 50k subsequent week.”

“That man.” 

That was me. 

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I stored studying. Apparently, she’d been courting him since earlier than me. She informed him every thing. How she was utilizing “one mumu Lagos man” to fund their life-style. She even despatched him screenshots of my texts, laughing at how “emotional” I sounded each time I stated I beloved her.

I used to be shaking. Not simply from anger, from humiliation. I assumed I used to be serving to her construct. I assumed we had been a staff. However all alongside, I used to be simply the sponsor of a relationship I wasn’t even in.

Once I confronted her, she didn’t even deny it. She simply stared and stated, “You’re a superb man, however he’s the one I actually love.”

I left her home and cried within the automotive like a child.

For weeks, I couldn’t sleep. I finished consuming. I finished trusting. My mates informed me to “man up” however they didn’t understand how deep the betrayal minimize. It wasn’t simply concerning the cash. It was the disrespect. The mockery. The truth that I used to be a facet character in my very own love story.

Now, I’m therapeutic. Slowly. I don’t give like earlier than. I ask questions. I observe. And any girl who posts “Actual males present”? Block and delete.

I refuse to be anyone’s ATM.

By no means once more.

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